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The Importance Of Writing About Sex

I was born in the early ‘90s, but I was raised in the early ‘00s, a time where conservative ideals about sex and gender seemed to reign. While the twenty- and thirty-somethings of the era were being...
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Why I (Don’t) Love College

I’m trapped. As a person with anxiety, one of my biggest fears is being trapped, being stuck somewhere with no foreseeable way out. What I never realized is it’s even worse to be trapped with a way out...
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Let’s Talk About Anal Sex

There are lots of things I’ve heard from other straight ladies they just will NOT do in bed. For some it’s oral sex—“I’ve seen where that’s been and it’s not going in my mouth” as my friend...
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I’m As Free As My Hair

People have defining characteristics—things that others can't help but notice right away. For some it's a mole, for others it's a tattoo, and for me, it's always been my hair. For as long as I can...
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I’m Not A Chill Girl

There's a lot that I admire about people I meet. Not just my friends, but people that encounter in my daily life—baristas, partners in group projects, my friends' friends—that all possess qualities that I...
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Taking Your Own Advice

As a writer, lady and certified busybody, my life is all about advice. I write a weekly column designed to give advice to people in relationships, I have lots of lady (and gentleman) friends and we spend a lot...
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11 Ways To Evade Tinder Men

Navigating the interwebs as a female twenty-something can be treacherous journey. From arguments about feminist issues, threats, harassment and everything unpleasant we face, something as fun as online dating...