Sex

My Hot Girl Summer of F*ckboys

Dating apps granted me quick, easy access to sex – ala cart style. Or as one of my regular FWBs eloquently put it, it wasn’t Doordash – it was Smash ‘n’ Dash.

Did My Depression Take Away My Ability To Consent?

By Jillian Elkin **Trigger warnings for rape**  The ceiling has dirty stains on it. I…

It’s Time to End the STD Shame

“I don’t think I’d ever date someone with AIDS.” It started in September when a…

I Like Butt Sex And I Cannot Lie

I heart anal, and you should too.

Why You Should Be Making Eye Contact During Sex

I adore getting off. In my bed, on my couch, even in my car. Orgasms…

7 Nightmare Inducing Birth Control Horror Stories

Birth control is the best…until it’s actually the worst

On Having Sex When You’re A “Good Girl”

Being a “good girl” and sexually active is not mutually exclusive.

After a Decade Out, I Still Struggle Being Gay & Disabled

I’ve been in a wheelchair my entire life, but often I feel like I can’t be both queer and disabled. I have to choose when I know that’s not possible.

Hookup Culture Is Killing My Self-Worth

When I was 16 years old, someone once told me that the best way to…

Sober Truth Behind Our Drunk Courage
The Sober Truth Behind Our Drunk Courage

“Do you guys cuddle?” “Not really.” I thought about the question—and the guy friend I…

5 Love Spells to Absolutely Not Try This Valentine’s Day (and 5 You Should)

As someone who spends all my free-time looking through strange books of spells, crystals, and…

How to Get Ahead of the Upcoming Birth Control Panic

This week I made the decision to switch to a long-term birth control method due…

It’s Time to Get Over the Embarrassment of GYN Exam

This is a sponsored conversation written by me with support from Hologic, Inc. The opinions…

On Living a Bold and Brash Life

Once upon a time, I was bold. I was proud and confident and bad ass.…

Stop Ordering Me To “Come For You”

The lights were dim in his Brooklyn apartment; two glasses of white wine danced with…

What Your Love Language Says About Your Relationship Style

My husband and I are not the same. We’re actually not even that similar. He…

Top HIV Myths Debunked, Since You Probably Never Learned It In Sex-Ed

By Maggie Martin With over 35 million people living with HIV, it’s safe to say…

“Jane the Virgin” Shows There Is Nothing Abnormal About Virginity

Jane The Virgin is a treasure trove bursting at the seams with intelligent characters and…

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Why Good Sex Is Worth Waiting For

It’s true what everyone tells you: sex is worth waiting for the right person. You…

Does Your Opinion On Porn Shift With Your Relationship Status?

Porn. For the most part, it is a culturally taboo word, unless of course you’re making…