Why You Need to Avoid the Manic Pixie Dream Boyfriend At All Costs

By Rebecca Schmidt  Have you ever heard of the Manic Pixie Dream Boyfriend (MPDB) and…

I Came Out of Myself ( & Came Out Too) at 27

Every one of my previous relationships had been with straight, white men, and Mo was mostly certainly not a straight, white man. She was a gay, brown woman. She was also one of the best people I’d ever met.

My Hot Girl Summer of F*ckboys

Dating apps granted me quick, easy access to sex – ala cart style. Or as one of my regular FWBs eloquently put it, it wasn’t Doordash – it was Smash ‘n’ Dash.

5 Ideas for Date Night That Won’t Make You Go Broke

Date night shouldn’t have to break the bank just to have a nice time with your partner.

Did My Depression Take Away My Ability To Consent?

By Jillian Elkin **Trigger warnings for rape**  The ceiling has dirty stains on it. I…

It’s Time to End the STD Shame

“I don’t think I’d ever date someone with AIDS.” It started in September when a…

How to Know When It’s Time to Breakup

I won’t lie, I’m not usually the first to admit I’ve got a bad habit.…

I Like Butt Sex And I Cannot Lie

I heart anal, and you should too.

Why You Should Be Making Eye Contact During Sex

I adore getting off. In my bed, on my couch, even in my car. Orgasms…

7 Nightmare Inducing Birth Control Horror Stories

Birth control is the best…until it’s actually the worst

The Definitive Guide To Online Dating

I am often introduced as “The Tinder Girl.” Despite having been off the app and in…

On Having Sex When You’re A “Good Girl”

Being a “good girl” and sexually active is not mutually exclusive.

How to Plan a Mutual Engagement for a Healthier Relationship

According to many fairytale love stories, romantic comedy film plots, and general societal norms, proposals…

15 Friends Worth Keeping in Your 20s

The friends you actually need to prioritize in your 20s

I Fell In Love With My Best Friend—And He Didn’t Love Me Back

How do you stay friends with someone after you tell them that you love them, but they don’t love you back?

After a Decade Out, I Still Struggle Being Gay & Disabled

I’ve been in a wheelchair my entire life, but often I feel like I can’t be both queer and disabled. I have to choose when I know that’s not possible.

A One-Night Stand on the Corner of Boredom and Desperation

By Anonymous Maybe it was the dawn. The light breaking ever so subtly, melting away…

Hookup Culture Is Killing My Self-Worth

When I was 16 years old, someone once told me that the best way to…

Why We Can’t Stop Watching the Trainwreck That Is The Bachelor

There is perhaps no greater stain on my soul than the fact that I watch…

What To Do When Your Ex Comes Back

Out of the blue a few weeks ago, I had a message in my inbox…